I take fans’ hatred for ‘Monica’ as compliment – Blessing Onwukwe

…Says Nollywood has taught her patience, discipline

By Christian Agadibe

The tearing movie entitled Monica has made many movie lovers to hurled curses on her and abuses, Blessing Onwukwe is a fast rising actress that similar to acting prowess like Patience Ozokwor aka Mama G as she displayed wickedness personified to her daughter in a trending movie that according  to her has gain massive breakthrough in the film industry. In an exclusive interview with Entertainer,  the Abia state born actress talk about her journey into stardom.

Tell us a bit about yourself?

I am an actress currently living in Lagos, though I was born and raised in Port Harcourt. I moved to Lagos specifically to pursue my acting career. Beyond my profession, I consider myself an amazing human being. I’m goofy, fun to be around, and very dedicated. I am also a quite serious-minded person when it entails my work.

When did you discover your passion for acting, and what inspired you to join the movie industry?

I have always loved acting; it is something I have enjoyed since childhood. In fact, my former classmates weren’t surprised to see me on screen because they always knew this was my path. I started by participating in drama groups at church as a child. I had a real hunger for it, and after finishing school, I felt it was finally time to pursue what I loved. Whenever I watched people on television, I would tell myself, “This is where you’re supposed to be.” That drive eventually led me to Lagos and into Nollywood.

Looking back at your journey, what would you say has been your biggest breakthrough moment?

My journey in Nollywood has been a progression from one level of grace to another. I have had several breakthroughs, starting with my very first movie in 2009, Busting Out by Emem Isong. It was a major moment because it was my first time auditioning, and I was cast in a film alongside Genevieve Nnaji and Majid Michel. I remember being so nervous that I was sweating profusely. Desmond Elliot, who was directing, asked why I was sweating so much, and I told him it was because I was standing in front of Genevieve and Majid! Genevieve was so kind; she told me I was doing a great job and that I would go places. While that was a foundational moment, my most recent project, Monica, has been a massive breakthrough. It has truly announced my presence to the world and brought me into limelight.

You have featured in several movies. Which projects are closest to your heart and why?

It would definitely be Monica. It is the biggest thing I have done so far and is the project that truly brought me into the spotlight. It holds a very special place in my heart for that reason.

As an actress, how do you prepare for emotional or challenging roles to make them feel real?

I prepare by fully immersing myself in the character. I read the script repeatedly. I think I read Monica at least three times. It made me cry, and I realized I needed the audience to feel that same emotion and understand her. I sat down and developed a backstory for her to understand why she was so angry and why her mother was so frustrated. Building that mental history helps me truly inhabit the character.

What are some of the biggest lessons the entertainment industry has taught you about life and success?

It has taught me patience and discipline. You have to be patient because success is a journey, and you must be disciplined if you want to be taken seriously. Another major lesson is the importance of minding your own business. When you’re dealing with so many different people, you quickly learn the value of focus and discretion.

How would your close friends describe the real Blessing Onwukwe behind the camera?

I’m not entirely sure what they would say when I’m not there, so you might have to ask them! However, I like to think I am a good person at heart.

What challenges have you faced in your career, and how did you overcome them?

The biggest challenge wasn’t necessarily the acting itself, but the financial struggle during the early stages of my career. At the time, I had aging, sick parents to care for and I wasn’t earning much from acting. To support my family, I started a side business supplying diesel to companies. Eventually, as my acting career began to pay off, I had to drop the diesel business because acting is a “jealous” career it requires your full time and attention.

Outside of acting, what other passions or interests keep you fulfilled?

I am a full-time actress, but I have always loved sewing; if I weren’t acting, I’d likely be a seamstress. I also enjoy business and investing. I like the challenge of moving money around and seeing a return on investment.

What is the next thing your fans should expect?

I have a lot in the pipeline –  more movies, more growth, and more strength. By the grace of God, I am just getting started.

Are you married?

No, I am not married, I have never been married, and I do not have children. I live alone with my maid and my two dogs.

What was your childhood like? Were you an entertainer back then?

I had an amazing, fun childhood. My parents are very devoted Christians, so I was raised in the church. That is where I learned everything – how to sing, dance, and act. I was part of the church drama group and loved every bit of it.

What do you think causes the high rate of marriage breakups in Nollywood, and how would you safeguard your own?

Honestly, I am the wrong person to ask because I’m not married! I don’t have any experience in that area yet. Perhaps when I find a husband and get married, I’ll have an answer for you.

What is the craziest thing a fan has said to you regarding your role in Monica?

I’ve had people tell me, “Monica, you are so wicked! It won’t go well for you!” It’s been quite crazy, but I take it as a compliment to my acting. The character was supposed to be hated, so as long as the reactions aren’t dangerous, I’m fine with it.

Did you have any formal training, and what makes someone a good actor?

I didn’t go to acting school; it is a natural gift from God. I started by going to open auditions and have spent my career polishing that talent and pushing myself to get better. I believe practice is what makes you good.

What project are you currently promoting?

I actually just wrapped up a project today. I played a beautiful, humble mother trying to guide her struggling son toward a better life. I’m very excited about it, though I’m not sure what the final title will be when it is released. It’s a beautiful story, and I can’t wait for people to see it.