By Rita Okoye
Veteran Nollywood actress Patience Ozokwor, widely known as Mama G, has shared her thoughts on the sensitive topic of infidelity in relationships. She urges women to handle such situations carefully, especially when children are involved.
During a recent podcast interview with comedian Isbae U, the respected actress acknowledged how emotionally difficult it can be to find out a partner has been unfaithful. She described this experience as deeply painful and often devastating for women.
She, however, warned against making rushed decisions that could have serious, long-term effects for both the woman and her children.
“Leaving a marriage because of infidelity is never easy. Discovering a partner’s betrayal is deeply painful, especially when children are involved. For many women, the reality of single motherhood can be challenging, particularly where financial stability is uncertain, and some men withdraw from their responsibilities after separation.
“While infidelity is unacceptable to both men and women, decisions must be made with careful consideration of one’s circumstances. Faith teachings emphasise both forgiveness and the legitimacy of separation on grounds of infidelity, leaving individuals to weigh what is best for their situation,” she stated.
The actress also highlighted that decisions about separation should consider the children’s well-being and future.
“When children are involved, their security and future often come first, so I’d advise any woman in that situation to forgive and stay in the marriage. Even in separation, coexisting for the sake of the children can be considered, provided there is no abuse or threat to life. Where there are no children, walking away may be easier,” she added.
Beyond relationship issues, the veteran actress also pointed out the lack of a structured royalty system.
Explaining why many veteran Nollywood actors openly seek financial help during illness, Mama G said they earn only one-time payments for their roles, with no royalties.
“Despite our years of hard work, the pay is often low, leaving us without long-term financial security. Unlike in developed countries, where actors earn royalties for life, in Nollywood, we struggle to cover expenses like medical bills because such structures are not in place.”
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